{"id":189,"date":"2010-06-03T09:43:52","date_gmt":"2010-06-03T09:43:52","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.dixie.sk\/ako-na-to\/?p=189"},"modified":"2010-06-03T09:56:12","modified_gmt":"2010-06-03T09:56:12","slug":"ako-komunikovat-s-japoncami","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.dixie.sk\/ako-na-to\/ako-komunikovat-s-japoncami\/","title":{"rendered":"Ako komunikova\u0165 s Japoncami"},"content":{"rendered":"

Anglick\u00fd cestovate\u013e J. Watson zhrnul svoje dojmy z Japonska slovami : <\/strong><\/p>\n

„Ke\u010f \u010dlovek str\u00e1vi v Japonsku \u0161es\u0165 t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148ov, v\u0161etko ch\u00e1pe. Po \u0161iestich mesiacoch za\u010d\u00edna pochybova\u0165. A po \u0161iestich rokoch si nie je ist\u00fd ni\u010d\u00edm.“<\/strong><\/p>\n

V. J. Cvetov\/rusk\u00fd spravodajca\/, ktor\u00fd str\u00e1vil v Japonsku osem rokov a svoje poznania a dojmy vp\u00edsal do knihy P\u00e4tn\u00e1sty kame\u0148 v z\u00e1hrade kl\u00e1\u0161tora Rj\u00f3andi, si neosobuje pr\u00e1vo absol\u00fatneho poznania tejto nev\u0161ednej a pre n\u00e1s e\u0161te st\u00e1le tajomnej krajiny. Tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee ani jedna interpret\u00e1cia definit\u00edvne nevysvetl\u00ed japonsk\u00fa „r\u00ed\u0161u divov“. Ka\u017ed\u00e1 bude obsahova\u0165 len zrnk\u00e1 pravdy poskladanej z mno\u017estva n\u00e1zorov a nez\u00e1vislej od \u017eiadneho z nich.<\/p>\n

Prin\u00e1\u0161ame v\u00e1m vo\u013en\u00fd v\u00fdber zauj\u00edmavost\u00ed na pokra\u010dovanie, z tejto nesporne pozoruhodnej knihy, vydanej na Slovensku v roku 1990.<\/p>\n

Dnes o zdvorilosti Japoncov.<\/p>\n

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U\u017e pri prv\u00fdch krokoch na japonskej p\u00f4de \u010dloveku mimovo\u013ene z\u00edde na um, \u010di sa neprie\u010di zdrav\u00e9mu rozumu, ke\u010f sa zdr\u00e1ha uveri\u0165 legende o neoby\u010dajnej japonskej zdvorilosti.<\/p>\n

Zdvorilos\u0165 ako ekonomick\u00e1 kateg\u00f3ria a sp\u00f4sob udr\u017eiavania harm\u00f3nie v pr\u00e1ci<\/strong><\/p>\n

Imigra\u010dn\u00ed \u00faradn\u00edci s \u00fasmevom porovn\u00e1vaj\u00fa fotografie v pasoch s tv\u00e1rami majite\u013eov dokladov a so \u017eelan\u00edm \u0161\u0165astn\u00e9ho pobytu v Japonsku pe\u010diatkuj\u00fa vstupn\u00e9 v\u00edza. Na stanovi\u0161ti tax\u00edkov sa v\u00e1s zmocn\u00ed dojem, \u017ee taxik\u00e1ri v takmer steriln\u00fdch bielych rukavi\u010dk\u00e1ch \u010dakaj\u00fa pr\u00e1ve na v\u00e1s. V malom starom hoteli, len \u010do sa otvorili sklen\u00e9 dvere, p\u00e4\u0165 \u017eien v kimon\u00e1ch a mu\u017e\u00a0 pok\u013eakli a zmeraveli v hlbokom \u00faklone. V prepychovom obchodnom dome, ale aj kr\u00e1miku, \u010di kaviarni\u010dke ve\u013ekosti novinov\u00e9ho st\u00e1nku prv\u00e9 slovo, ktor\u00e9 z\u00e1kazn\u00edk po\u010duje je Irra\u0161\u0161aimase !<\/strong>, t.j. „Vitajte u\u00a0 n\u00e1s“, prednesen\u00e9 pod\u013ea po\u010dtu zamestnancov bu\u010f zborovo alebo s\u00f3lovo. A vy c\u00edtite, \u017ee to nie len zdvorilostn\u00e1 fr\u00e1za. A tak si kladiete ot\u00e1zku, \u010di zdvorilos\u0165 je naozaj neodmyslite\u013enou s\u00fa\u010das\u0165ou japonsk\u00e9ho charakteru. Autor si odpoved\u00e1 : „V\u00f4bec nie“. O \u0161iestej ve\u010der sa obrovsk\u00fd obchodn\u00fd dom zatv\u00e1ra a stovky predava\u010diek sa pon\u00e1h\u013eaj\u00fa k stanici metra a \u017eelezni\u010dn\u00e9mu n\u00e1dra\u017eiu. V \u0161pi\u010dke sa tokijsk\u00e9 metro a pr\u00edmestsk\u00e1 \u017eeleznica menia na hotov\u00e9 galeje. Mil\u00e9 diev\u010dat\u00e1 z obchodu sa menia na z\u00fariv\u00e9 tigrice bojuj\u00face o miesto vo vozni. Beda va\u0161im noh\u00e1m, bokom, p\u00e4stiam. Sta\u010d\u00ed, aby ste sa trocha pozabudli a dav v\u00e1s zmetie, surovo a nemilosrdne. Slovko „prep\u00e1\u010dte“ tu veru neza\u010dujete. Tu ste sa stali „cudz\u00edm \u010dlovekom“. Nepom\u00e1haj\u00fa ani stovky v\u00fdchovn\u00fdch plag\u00e1tov s aj napr\u00edklad tu e\u0161te st\u00e1le popul\u00e1rnou Marylin Monroe, ktor\u00e9 vyz\u00fdvaj\u00fa :“ Uvo\u013enite miesta matk\u00e1m s de\u0165mi, star\u0161\u00edm a invalidom“. Zdvorilos\u0165 sa pod\u013ea autora odv\u00edja od spolo\u010densk\u00e9ho postavenia, moci a pe\u0148az\u00ed. Japonec je vraj zdvoril\u00fd dovtedy, k\u00fdm na tom materi\u00e1lne alebo mor\u00e1lne neprer\u00e1ba. Ke\u010f si mus\u00ed vybra\u0165 medzi prejavom \u00faslu\u017enosti a nie\u010d\u00edm, z \u010doho bude ma\u0165 v\u00fdhodu, bez v\u00e1hania d\u00e1 prednos\u0165 v\u00fdhode.<\/p>\n

Japonci nepou\u017e\u00edvaj\u00fa slovko „nie“<\/strong><\/p>\n

Japonci sa zdr\u00e1haj\u00fa poveda\u0165 slovko „nie“. Je to ich predstava zdvorilosti – rad\u0161ej nech sa probl\u00e9m nevyrie\u0161i, ako by sa mala naru\u0161i\u0165 harm\u00f3nia. Pri rokovaniach si vypo\u010dujete : „Ve\u013emi dobre ch\u00e1pem v\u00e1\u0161 \u00faprimn\u00fd n\u00e1vrh, \u017eia\u013e m\u00e1m in\u00fd n\u00e1zor ako vy, no v\u00e1\u0161 n\u00e1vrh zv\u00e1\u017eim a pre\u0161tudujem tak d\u00f4kladne ako budem vedie\u0165“. Ak vo v\u00e1s skrzla iskierka n\u00e1deje a prik\u00fdvnete s \u013eahk\u00fdm srdcom, \u017ee po\u010dk\u00e1te na v\u00fdsledok, nedo\u010dk\u00e1te sa. Japonec v\u00e1m v skuto\u010dnosti povedal „nie“. Preto Ameri\u010dania celkom opodstatnene tvrdia : „\u010clovek m\u00f4\u017ee kona\u0165 tromi sp\u00f4sobmi – spr\u00e1vne, nespr\u00e1vne a po japonsky“.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Japonsky ch\u00e1pan\u00e1 zdvorilos\u0165 vy\u017eaduje vyh\u00fdba\u0165 sa jasn\u00fdm, prec\u00edzne zd\u00f4vodnen\u00fdm tvrdeniam. V japon\u010dine stoj\u00ed sloveso a\u017e na konci vety. Hovoriaci\u00a0 m\u00e1 preto dostatok \u010dasu v\u0161imn\u00fa\u0165 si reakciu na svoje slov\u00e1, zv\u00e1\u017ei\u0165 ju a pr\u00edpadne upravi\u0165 svoju v\u00fdpove\u010f, zjemni\u0165 vetu v\u00fdberom vhodn\u00e9ho slovesa. Japonsk\u00fd vedec Kimura nap\u00edsal : „Pre Japonca nie je oko iba org\u00e1nom zraku, ale aj org\u00e1nom re\u010di“. Japonec v poh\u013eade druh\u00e9ho \u010dloveka vie vy\u010d\u00edta\u0165 du\u0161evn\u00fd stav i citov\u00e9 rozpolo\u017eenie, o\u010di s\u00fa pre neho rovnako v\u00fdre\u010dn\u00e9 ako jazyk“. Japonec pou\u017e\u00edva ne\u00fapln\u00e9 vety, gest\u00e1 a nejednozna\u010dn\u00e9 v\u00fdroky. Schopnos\u0165 vyzvedie\u0165 sa pri rozhovore cudzie z\u00e1mery sa v Japonsku poklad\u00e1 za ve\u013emi d\u00f4le\u017eit\u00fa vlastnos\u0165. Preto sa Japonsko zvykne naz\u00fdva\u0165 aj „krajina, kde sa \u013eudia neh\u00e1daj\u00fa“<\/strong>. V USA vznikla v\u010faka tomu nov\u00e1 profesia – konzultant pre rokovanie s Japoncami, ktor\u00e1 tvrd\u00ed, \u017ee pri rozhovore s Japoncami je d\u00f4le\u017eitej\u0161ie to, ako hovor\u00edte,<\/em> ako to, \u010do hovor\u00edte<\/em>…ak hovor\u00edte priamo a vecne, Japonec sa za\u010dne vykr\u00faca\u0165…lep\u0161ie je si Japonca vypo\u010du\u0165, vy\u010dka\u0165 de\u0148 a a\u017e potom mu da\u0165 odpove\u010f.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Pridajte svoj sk\u00fasenos\u0165<\/strong><\/p>\n


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Anglick\u00fd cestovate\u013e J. Watson zhrnul svoje dojmy z Japonska slovami : „Ke\u010f \u010dlovek str\u00e1vi v Japonsku \u0161es\u0165 t\u00fd\u017ed\u0148ov, v\u0161etko ch\u00e1pe. Po \u0161iestich mesiacoch za\u010d\u00edna pochybova\u0165. A po \u0161iestich rokoch si nie je ist\u00fd ni\u010d\u00edm.“ V. J. Cvetov\/rusk\u00fd spravodajca\/, ktor\u00fd str\u00e1vil v Japonsku osem rokov a svoje poznania a dojmy vp\u00edsal do knihy P\u00e4tn\u00e1sty kame\u0148 v … Pokra\u010dova\u0165 na Ako komunikova\u0165 s Japoncami<\/span> →<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_uf_show_specific_survey":0,"_uf_disable_surveys":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[67,131,164],"tags":[170,169,165,243,167,173,172,171,168,166],"class_list":["post-189","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-cestovanie","category-dovolenka-cestovanie","category-japonsko","tag-cestovanie-po-japonsku","tag-cvetov","tag-japonci","tag-japonsko","tag-kimura","tag-komunikacia-s-japoncami","tag-konzultant-pre-rokovanie-s-japoncami","tag-rokovanie-s-japoncami","tag-watson","tag-zdvorilost"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dixie.sk\/ako-na-to\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/189","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dixie.sk\/ako-na-to\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dixie.sk\/ako-na-to\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dixie.sk\/ako-na-to\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dixie.sk\/ako-na-to\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=189"}],"version-history":[{"count":7,"href":"https:\/\/www.dixie.sk\/ako-na-to\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/189\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":197,"href":"https:\/\/www.dixie.sk\/ako-na-to\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/189\/revisions\/197"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.dixie.sk\/ako-na-to\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=189"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dixie.sk\/ako-na-to\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=189"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.dixie.sk\/ako-na-to\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=189"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}